When you have questions about sex, it can be hard to ask. I mean, if you don’t know where your G-Spot is, you can’t exactly bring that up to your best friend while in line for FroYo, can you? Well, for all the too-shy-to-ask, and all the too-afraid-the-search-will-stay-in-your-Google-history-forever, here’s the most commonly asked questions about sex.
- How can you have a multiple orgasm?
Well, this all depends. It’s important to know that some women simply don’t orgasm. Ever. So if you think you’re doing something wrong, you’re not. But if you are one of the lucky ones who can reach the big O, then all you really have to do is wait it out! Most people connect having an orgasm and cumming, so when they have one, the stop doing it. If you have an orgasm, ride it out and keep your arousal up. If you’re able to keep going, since you’re already worked up, you’ll be able to have another one. Only 30% of women can reach orgasm through their G-Spot, so get your boyfriend to work his finger magic on your clitoris while having intercourse.
- How do you do Kegel exercises?
A Kegel exercise (basically the contraction of your inner vagina muscles) is done to make yourself tighter. It’s better for controlling your orgasms, having longer orgasms, and even having better bladder control. You know how you suck in your muscles when you really have to pee? Well, that’s a Kegel. Doing that in reps is a great way to keep yourself tight, or get yourself back to normal after having a child. The best part is that no once can see when you’re doing them– at work, while driving, at the dinner table– you can do it anywhere and no one will be the wiser.
- I have a really low sex drive… Is it possible to boost your libido?
Everyone from people who just met on online dating sites to people who have been married for years can have problems with their libido. Changing your diet to include less sugar and more fruit is the best way to get you in the mood. Fit people have a better sex drive because they’re more physically able to enjoy sex, so going for a run in the morning and switching in Vitamin Water for your morning coffee can have a great effect on your dating and sex life.
- How do you have a G Spot orgasm?
Alright, let’s do a little experiment here. put your hand flat in front of you, palm facing up. Now, using your first two fingers, do the ‘come here’ gesture. If someone were to finger you like that, that’s where your G Spot is. All you have to do is get into a position that makes it easy for someone to touch that spot. Doggy style is the most common, and if you rock your hips forward while he thrusts, you’re likely to hit the sweet spot.
- My boyfriend has a little Erectile Disfunction problem. Is there anything we can do about it without using Viagra?
Many people search for an alternative to Viagra, seeing as you can’t have any heart or major health problems while using it.
Stress and a bad diet are big contributors to ED. Getting your man off of fatty foods and bringing down his blood pressure is key to him performing better in bed. Cutting down on caffeine and alcohol is also important, and getting rid of smoking all together is crucial.
If you tried a healthier lifestyle and that’s not doing it for him, get him a cock ring. By having a cock ring at the base of the penis, it’s helping the blood flow stay in the erection, which gives him assistance in keeping it up.
Everyone has questions and troubles when it comes to sex, so hopefully this little list will lead you in the right direction.